How to dress sexy: 12 tips to look seductive (without being skanky)
Are you wondering how to dress sexy? Do you want to add some sex appeal to your wardrobe but don’t want to come off as inappropriate or trash?
Dressing sexy doesn’t have to mean revealing too much skin or wearing overly tight clothing. With the right tips and tricks, you can look seductive and alluring while still maintaining a sense of class and elegance.
How to dress sexy: 12 tips to look seductive without being skanky
Today, I’m sharing my favorite tips and tricks to look and feel sexy without feeling skanky. Let’s begin!
1. Choose Sexy Clothing
When it comes to dressing sexy, choosing the right clothing is crucial. Here are some tips to help you choose clothing that will make you look seductive without being skanky.
Emphasizing your Best Features
The key to dressing sexy is to emphasize your best features. If you have great legs, wear a short skirt or dress. If you have a toned back, wear a backless top. If you have a curvy figure, wear form-fitting clothing that shows off your curves.
How to determine your best features:
- Stand in front of a full-length mirror and take a good look at yourself.
- Ask your friends or family members what they think your best features are – this can help you learn how others perceive you.
- Take an honest assessment of what body parts you like the most.
2. Choose clothing that works for your body shape
Knowing your body shape is important when choosing clothing that will make you look sexy. Here are the main body shapes:
Hourglass shape:
If you have a balanced top and bottom with a waist that is narrower than your hips, then you have an hourglass figure. Choose clothing that highlights your curves, like bodycon dresses or high-waisted jeans with fitted tops.
Apple shape:
If you carry most of your weight around the middle, then you are an apple shape. Opt for clothing that shows off your shoulders and legs rather than the middle. Try empire waist dresses, A-line skirts, and blazer jackets to flatter your shape. Apple shapes tend to have amazing legs so don’t be afraid to highlight them!
Pear shape:
If you have a wider lower body than upper body, then you are a pear shape. To best show off your figure, choose clothing that emphasizes your smaller waist and upper body with fitted shirts, necklines like v-necks or scoop necks, and skirts that flare out from the waist. Pear shapes tend to have beautiful shoulders and arms so showcase that with off-shoulder dresses and tops!
Inverted triangle shape:
If you have broad shoulders that are wider than your hips, then you are in an inverted triangle shape. To create balance in your look, select items that draw attention to your lower half, such as bootcut jeans, full and A-line skirts, and tops with patterned or bright-colored bottoms. Avoid clothing that emphasizes your shoulders or chest too much. Inverted triangles usually have a great bust, so show some cleavage for the ultimate sexiness!
Rectangle shape:
If your waist is undefined and you have a straight up-and-down figure, then you may be a rectangle shape. To create more curves for your look, choose clothing with textured fabric, such as embroidered or ruffled tops, and skirts with pleats or an A-line silhouette. Avoid wearing baggy clothing, as they will only make your figure appear boxier. Emphasize your waist and create curves by wearing wide belts or layered tops. Rectangle shapes tend to have grate legs as well, so don’t be afraid to highlight them!
Choose clothes that fit right.
Choosing the right fit is essential when it comes to dressing sexy. Clothing that is too loose or too tight can be unflattering. Opt for clothing that fits well and accentuates your curves without being too revealing.
3. Invest in sexy lingerie and undergarments (even if it’s just for you!)
Investing in sexy lingerie and undergarments can make you feel confident and sexy, even if no one else sees them. Choose lingerie and undergarments that make you feel comfortable and confident and that complement your outfit.
There are a variety of styles and fabrics available, so find the ones that fit you best. Remember to keep things simple and comfortable – after all, lingerie should be something that you feel good wearing!
4. Don’t forget accessorizing.
Accessories can make or break a sexy outfit. Choose accessories that complement your outfit and add to your overall look. A statement necklace or a pair of killer heels can take your outfit from ordinary to sexy in seconds. If you’re wearing a skirt, add a belt or waist cincher to give your outfit some shape.
Don’t forget about layering: choose sheer fabrics and wraps for added dimension. For the finishing touches, pair with glitzy jewelry, sparkly clutch bags and statement sunglasses.
5. Choose colors that enhance your attractiveness.
Choosing the right colors can enhance your attractiveness and make you look more seductive. Dark colors like black, navy blue, and dark green are always a good choice as they create a slimming effect and give you a sleek, sophisticated look. Red is also a great color choice as it is associated with passion and desire. This color can be worn in different shades and tones, depending on your skin tone and personal preference.
If you prefer lighter colors, pastels like pink, lavender, and baby blue can also make you look more attractive and feminine. These colors can be paired with darker shades to create a contrast and make your outfit pop.
Neutral colors like beige, white, and gray can also be used to create a chic and elegant look. These colors are versatile and can be paired with almost any other color to create a stylish and sophisticated outfit.
6. Choose patterns that add Flair
Patterns can add flair and personality to your outfit, making you look more attractive and interesting. Animal prints like leopard, zebra, and snake are a popular choice for adding a touch of wildness to your outfit. However, it’s important to use these patterns sparingly, as too much can make you look tacky and over-the-top.
Floral prints can also add a feminine and romantic touch to your outfit. These prints can be worn in different sizes and colors, depending on your personal style and preference.
Stripes and polka dots are classic patterns that can never go wrong. These patterns can be used to create a retro or vintage look, or they can be paired with modern pieces to create a more contemporary outfit.
When it comes to patterns, it’s important to choose ones that complement your body shape and skin tone. Bold and busy patterns can make you look larger, while smaller and more subtle patterns can make you look slimmer.
7. Rock a sexy hairstyle
If you want to look seductive without being skanky, your hair and makeup are key. Here are some tips to help you achieve the perfect look.
Hairstyles that Exude Confidence
Your hairstyle can make a big difference in how you look and feel. Here are some hairstyles that exude confidence and sex appeal:
- Loose waves: Soft, loose waves are a classic look that can make you feel sexy without being over the top.
- Sleek ponytail: A sleek, high ponytail can make you look confident and sophisticated.
- Messy bun: A messy bun can be a playful and flirty look that shows off your natural beauty.
- Side-swept bangs: Side-swept bangs can frame your face and give you a mysterious, alluring look.
- braids: Braids are a timeless look that can instantly transform your look. Experiment with different styles to find the one that works best for you.
- Loose curls: Loose curls add volume and texture to your hair, giving it an effortless and romantic feel.
- Half-up hairstyle: Half-up hairstyles are chic and modern, making them great for day or night.
Here’s a cute side curl hairstyle that’s easy to do and will make you feel oh-so-sexy:
8. Opt for a Sultry Makeup Look
When it comes to makeup, less is often more. Here are some sultry makeup looks that can help you look seductive without going overboard:
- Smoky eyes: A smoky eye can be a dramatic and sexy look that draws attention to your eyes. Rock dark eyeshadow for a sultry smoky look.
- Bold lips: Bold, red lips can make you look confident and powerful.
- Natural look: A natural, no-makeup look can be a great way to show off your natural beauty and make you feel confident in your own skin.
- Winged eyeliner: Winged eyeliner can be a classic and sexy look that accentuates your eyes and gives you a flirty, playful look.
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Remember, the key to looking seductive without being skanky is to keep it subtle and understated. Choose a hairstyle and makeup look that makes you feel confident and sexy, but don’t go overboard.
9. Don’t forget about the shoes!
When it comes to dressing sexy, shoes are an essential component of your outfit. The right pair of shoes can elevate your look and make you feel confident and alluring. Here are some tips to keep in mind when choosing shoes to complete your seductive outfit:
- Heels are your best friend: High heels are a classic choice for dressing sexy. They elongate your legs and give you a more confident posture. Choose a pair of heels that you can walk comfortably in, and make sure they match the style and color of your outfit.
- Strappy sandals add a touch of elegance: Strappy sandals are a great alternative to heels if you’re not comfortable wearing them. They add a touch of elegance to your outfit and can be dressed up or down depending on the occasion.
- Boots can be sexy too: Don’t overlook boots when it comes to dressing sexy. Knee-high boots or ankle boots with a high heel can be a great addition to your outfit, especially in the colder months.
- Choose the right color: When choosing shoes to match your outfit, consider the color of your clothes. Nude or black shoes are versatile and can match almost any outfit. If you’re feeling bold, try a pop of color to add some personality to your look.
- Don’t forget about comfort: While it’s important to choose shoes that look sexy, don’t sacrifice comfort for style. If you’re going to be on your feet for a long time, choose shoes that have a comfortable sole and provide support for your feet.
Remember, the key to dressing sexy is to feel confident and comfortable in your own skin. Choose shoes that match your personal style and make you feel amazing, and you’ll be sure to turn heads wherever you go.
10. Have a Sexy Scent
Having a sexy scent is an essential part of dressing seductively. Your fragrance should be subtle yet captivating, leaving a lasting impression on those around you. Here are some tips for choosing the right scent:
Choosing Sexy Fragrances
When selecting a fragrance, choose one that complements your personality and style. Here are some common types of fragrances to consider:
- Floral: Floral fragrances are feminine and romantic. They typically feature notes of roses, jasmine, and other flowers.
- Oriental: Oriental fragrances are exotic and sensual. They typically feature notes of spices, vanilla, and musk.
- Woody: Woody fragrances are warm and earthy. They typically feature notes of sandalwood, cedar, and patchouli.
- Citrus: Citrus fragrances are fresh and invigorating. They typically feature notes of lemon, lime, and grapefruit.
When selecting a fragrance, it is important to consider the occasion. A light, floral fragrance may be appropriate for a daytime event, while a more sensual oriental fragrance may be better suited for a night out.
When applying your fragrance, remember that less is more. Apply a small amount to your pulse points, such as your wrists, neck, and behind your ears. This will help the fragrance to last longer and be more noticeable.
11. Check your Posture and Attitude
Standing Tall and Having Correct Posture
Your posture can make a big difference in how you look and feel. Standing tall with your shoulders back and your head held high can make you look more confident and sexy. Good posture can also make you appear taller and slimmer.
To achieve good posture, imagine a string pulling you up from the top of your head. Keep your shoulders relaxed and avoid slouching. When sitting, keep your back straight and your feet flat on the floor. If you have trouble maintaining good posture, consider doing exercises that strengthen your core and back muscles.
Exuding Sex Appeal with Your Attitude
Your attitude can also play a big role in how sexy you appear. Confidence is key when it comes to exuding sex appeal. Walk with purpose and make eye contact with those around you. Be comfortable in your own skin and embrace your unique qualities.
Avoid being too aggressive or trying too hard to be sexy. Instead, focus on being yourself and letting your natural charm shine through. A positive attitude and a friendly smile can go a long way in making you appear more attractive and approachable.
Remember, being sexy is not just about your physical appearance. It’s also about how you carry yourself and the energy you project.
12. Live a Sexy Lifestyle
To truly embrace your sexy side, it’s important to live a lifestyle that supports it. Here are a few tips to help you get started.
Take Care of Your Skin (Skincare Routine)
Your skin is your largest organ, and taking care of it is crucial to feeling and looking your best. Develop a skincare routine that works for you, including cleansing, moisturizing, and protecting your skin from the sun. Use products that are tailored to your skin type and include ingredients like antioxidants and hyaluronic acid to keep your skin looking youthful and radiant.
You Are What You Eat! Eat Healthy
Your diet plays a big role in how you feel and look. Eating a balanced diet that is rich in fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and healthy fats can help you maintain a healthy weight, boost your energy levels, and give your skin a healthy glow. Avoid processed foods, excess sugar, and alcohol, which can lead to inflammation and dull skin.
Ignore Negative Self-Talk
Negative self-talk can be a major barrier to feeling sexy and confident. Instead of focusing on your flaws, try to focus on your positive qualities and what makes you unique. Practice self-love and acceptance, and remember that everyone has insecurities.
Focus on What Makes You Feel Good
Whether it’s wearing your favorite outfit, practicing yoga, or spending time with loved ones, make time for the things that make you feel good. When you feel good, you radiate confidence and sexiness.
Move Your Body
Exercise is not only great for your physical health, but it can also boost your mood and confidence. Find an exercise routine that you enjoy, whether it’s dancing, running, or weightlifting. Incorporate movement into your daily routine by taking the stairs instead of the elevator or going for a walk during your lunch break.
By incorporating these tips into your lifestyle, you can feel confident, sexy, and empowered. Remember to prioritize self-love and acceptance, and focus on what makes you feel good inside and out.
Ways I Dress Sexy and Seductive
When it comes to dressing sexy and seductive, it’s important to find a balance between revealing too much and not enough. Here are some ways you can dress to look alluring without being skanky:
1. I Show off my best features
I like to choose clothes that accentuate my best features which include my legs and shoulders. Since I have fairly toned legs, I love wearing a mini-skirt and/or off-shoulder top! Remember, it’s not about showing everything off but rather drawing attention to your best assets.
2. I wear form-fitting clothes
Clothes that fit well can make all the difference. I like to Opt for clothes that hug my curves without being too tight. A well-fitted dress or pair of jeans can make you feel confident and sexy.
3. I love to add some lace
Lace is a timeless fabric that adds a touch of femininity and sexiness to any outfit. I love to incorporate lace into my wardrobe with a lace top, dress, or lingerie.
4. I choose the right shoes
Shoes can make or break an outfit. I love to wear heels that elongate my legs (they just make me feel more confident!). While I love heels, I can’t walk in stilettos, so I tend to opt for block heels or wedges, which still give me the benefits of heels but are much more comfortable!
5. I accessorize strategically
Accessories can take an outfit from ordinary to sexy. I’m a huge accessory girl and try to have at least one statement piece of jewelry, such as a statement necklace or earrings, to draw attention to my face.
You can also find me rocking a clutch or handbag to add a touch of sophistication to my look.
Remember, dressing sexy and seductive is all about feeling confident in your own skin. Choose clothes that make you feel good and accentuate your best features. With these tips, you can look alluring without being skanky.
6. I wear what I LOVE (not what I think others will love)
I wear what I LOVE (not what I think others will love):
Sexiness is about you, and one way I dress sexy is ensuring I’m wear clothing that makes me feel sexy and sultry, not what the media or others deem as it!
In other words, I don’t let anyone else dictate what makes me feel sexy. So whether it’s an outfit that shows off my curves or something more subtle and classy, I always make sure it’s something that will make me feel beautiful and confident.
Don’t let trends or others opinions dictate your style.
I’m a firm believer that fashion should be about personal expression and not following the herd. So while I’ll take notes from what’s trending (and of course, blog about it!), I strive to create my own unique look—one that will turn heads and have people asking for advice on where to find something similar.
Final thoughts: Confidence is always sexy
Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities a person can have. When you feel good about yourself, it shows in the way you carry yourself and interact with others. Here are some tips to help you feel more confident in your appearance:
Celebrate yourself
Take the time to appreciate your own unique qualities and celebrate them. Focus on the things you like about yourself, whether it’s your sense of humor, your intelligence, or your physical features. When you feel good about yourself, it’s easier to project that confidence to others.
Dress for yourself
Wear clothes that make you feel good and comfortable. Don’t worry about what others might think or what’s currently in fashion. If you feel confident in what you’re wearing, it will show. Choose clothes that accentuate your best features and make you feel sexy without being too revealing.
Practice positive self-talk
The way you talk to yourself can have a big impact on your confidence levels. Instead of focusing on your flaws or shortcomings, focus on your strengths and positive qualities. Tell yourself that you are beautiful, smart, and capable.
Take care of yourself
Self-care is an important part of feeling confident. Make sure you’re getting enough sleep, eating well, and taking care of your body. When you feel good physically, it’s easier to feel good mentally and emotionally.
Remember, confidence is something that comes from within.
Frequently Asked Questions: How to Dress Sexy
How to Dress Hot but Modest
When it comes to dressing sexy, many people worry that they will come across as too revealing or inappropriate. However, it is possible to dress hot while still being modest. Here are a few tips:
- Choose clothing that fits well without being too tight or revealing.
- Wear clothing that flatters your figure without showing too much skin.
- Opt for high-quality fabrics that drape well and feel good against your skin.
- Accessorize with items that add a touch of sexiness without going overboard, such as a statement necklace or a pair of high heels.
How to Dress Sexier When Overweight
If you are overweight, you may feel self-conscious about dressing sexy. However, there are plenty of ways to look hot and confident, regardless of your size. Here are a few tips:
- Choose clothing that fits well and flatters your figure, such as a wrap dress or a flowy tunic top.
- Opt for fabrics that are lightweight and breathable, such as cotton or linen.
- Accessorize with items that draw attention to your best features, such as a statement necklace or a pair of bold earrings.
- Embrace your curves and wear clothing that shows off your shape, such as a fitted pencil skirt or a pair of skinny jeans.
How to Dress Up Sexy
If you want to dress up for a night out or a special occasion, there are plenty of ways to look sexy and glamorous. Here are a few tips:
- Choose a dress or outfit that makes you feel confident and sexy, such as a little black dress or a sequined skirt
- Accessorize with items that add a touch of glamour, such as a statement necklace or a pair of sparkly earrings.
- Wear high heels to elongate your legs and add height.
- Opt for a bold lipstick color or smoky eye makeup to complete your look.
Read: What to wear to a gala
How to Dress Sexy in Winter
Just because it’s cold outside doesn’t mean you can’t dress sexy. Here are a few tips for looking hot and staying warm:
- Layer your clothing to create a sexy and stylish look, such as wearing a form-fitting sweater over a collared shirt.
- Wear high-quality fabrics that are warm and cozy, such as wool or cashmere.
- Accessorize with items that add a touch of sexiness, such as a pair of thigh-high boots or a statement scarf.
- Choose outerwear that is both stylish and practical, such as a faux fur coat or a parka with a fur-trimmed hood.
How to Look Hot in Casual Clothes
Even if you’re just running errands or hanging out with friends, you can still look hot and stylish in casual clothes. Here are a few tips:
- Choose clothing that is comfortable and fits well, such as a pair of fitted jeans or a fitted T-shirt.
- Accessorize with items that add a touch of sexiness, such as a pair of high-top sneakers, boots, or a statement hat.
- Wear clothing that flatters your figure without being too revealing, such as a flowy tunic top or a pair of cropped pants.
- Opt for high-quality fabrics that are both comfortable and stylish, such as cotton or denim.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about feeling confident and comfortable in your own skin. With these tips, you can look hot and stylish no matter what your body type or personal style may be.
Dressing sexy doesn’t have to be uncomfortable or intimidating—it can be an enjoyable and empowering experience for anybody.
To recap: pick out clothing that makes you feel confident, choose clothing that flatters your features, and don’t be afraid to bring in color or patterns to lend an extra bit of glam. Additionally, experiment with different fabrics that feel nice against the skin—sometimes the sensual feeling of silk can define your look and accentuate every curve.
And finally, always remember that often it isn’t what you wear but how you wear it. When it comes to dressing sexy, giving off confidence and owning your own style is the most alluring thing a person can do. With these tips in mind, go forth and dress in a way that boosts your self-confidence and sets a heart or maybe two ablaze!
In my next article, I’m sharing 5 simple ways to feel sexually attractive
