How to take better pictures of yourself (9 proven ways to get that killer shot)

Have you ever walked past the mirror and thought damnnnnnnn, girl! You’re looking fioneee today!… so you proceeded to take a few million photos of yourself but none of them looked that great? Not even one selfie slightly reflected that gorgeous-ness reflecting back at you in the mirror. Tragic.

Today, as your digital bestie, I’m sharing 9 quick and easy tips to take better photos of yourself so you can have that bangin’ selfie…

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How to take better photos of yourself

1. ALWAYS Shoot from Above

Shooting from above will provide a more flattering angle by emphasizing your eyes and make your face and neck appear slimmer. Photos tend to look better when taken slightly above (instead of the dreaded chin first image)

2. Use Even Lighting

Natural sunlight is the most complimentary light (plus it’s free!). If you’re shooting inside, try to shoot near a window. If you’re shooting outside, try a day when there’s an overcast or shoot early mornings/evenings.

While natural sunlight is complimentary… direct sunlight, particularly in the middle of the day when the sun is straight overhead, is usually not flattering because it’s too harsh and will produce dark uneven shadows across your face.

You want the light to be even so you don’t have any shadows on your face and neck which are distracting.

3. Use negative space

No one likes a photo that cuts off at an awkward spot. Try to have space above your head so you don’t cut the top of your head off (unless you’re aiming for that kinda photo). I aim to have empty space at the top and empty space on the sides when shooting myself full body, so I don’t have weird cut-offs in the photo.


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4. Shoot in continuous mode

I find taking a bunch of photos at 3-10 second intervals is easier when you’re taking photos of yourself. It allows you to take multiple images in one sitting without having to constantly get up and touch your phone/camera each time you pose differently.

Here’s an example of when I took continuous photos of myself for a sponsored post!.

5. Think about your positioning

When shooting yourself, try not to position yourself directly in the middle of the shot. The best photos tend to follow the rule of thirds. This improves the composition and balance of your images by ensuring the most important things are placed in a way that is more pleasing to the eye.

As you can see my face is slightly more to the left instead of directly in the middle of the photo which makes this visually more appealing.

6. Consider getting a tripod or selfie stick

Having a tripod to set your camera up will give you better results if you’re setting your camera up to take multiple photos over a period of time (continuous mode). Having a tripod has been an absolute game-changer for me and will help you take better photos of yourself.

7. Invest in a remote

A remote will allow you to take multiple shots at different poses without having to physically get up to take the picture each time. This will definitely help you take better photos of yourself because you take 10 photos in a matter of a minute and virtually stay in the same spot.

I love remotes because they allow me to continuously takes photos and easily (and quickly) hide the remote under my leg for the photo.

8. Get a ring light

A ring light produces perfectly balanced lighting that is evenly distributed. It’s very complimentary and helps improve the image. If you’re recording videos or looking for high-quality photos that look professionally, I definitely recommend getting a ring ling!

What’s even better is they now have ring lights for your phone, your digital camera and stand-alone (which is what I use).

9. Invest in editing software

Sometimes the lighting is off or you need to crop something out of the photo. This is where a photo editor comes in! I like Adobe lightroom because it allows me to lighten up dark photos and even remove a pimple!

10. Work them angles’ and pose

My best advice to find YOUR angle is to take a bunch of photos and study which angles and poses look best for you.
If you’re taking a full-body photo standing up, lift your arm to look slimmer.
Turn your shoulders so you don’t look lifeless.
Put your hand on your hip (my go-to).
Practice in the mirror trying different poses to see what works for you. Take those million selfies and figure out which angles are the most flattering for you.

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me… totally trying to be a model

11. Check the background

You don’t want to take photos where the background will distract you. Always do a quick scan behind you and ensure there’s nothing that will draw attention away from you. This includes a messy background with things all over the floor or distracting objects.

Here my tips when it comes to how to take better photos of yourself. This especially comes in handy if you are an influencer!

Do you have any tips when it comes to taking great photos of yourself? If so, share below! I love to know!

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My Peaceful Night Routine featuring ancient cosmetics

This blog post and video are sponsored by Ancient Cosmetics, however, all thoughts and opinions are my own.

Do you have a night routine? Does it help? Is it peaceful? Does it really matter? I, personally, say yes!

This year, I’m being intentional with how I spend my time (mornings and nights) so I do have a night routine. It’s peaceful, practical and realistic! I also have a productive morning routine which you can check out here.

Watch the video here: My Peaceful Night Routine

Drink a sleepy tea

I like to sip a hot cup of tea as I prepare for bed. I find that drinking a bedtime tea before hitting the sheets soothes me and prepares me for a peaceful night.

Fun fact: Did you know chamomile is known for fighting off insomnia, stress, anxiety, and upset stomachs?

Lay my workout clothes out

I like to set myself up for success when it comes to working out in the morning by making that decision the night before. When I lay out my clothes out the night before, I’m making it easy to hit up the gym in the morning because I’ve relieved myself of morning outfit decisions and can just get and go.

Wash and moisturize my face

I wash my face twice a day.
In the morning, I use a very gentle cleanser followed by a toner and moisturizer.
However, I really focus on my skin at night since I want to get rid of all the dirt, gunk and oil built up through the day.

I also like to follow up with an eyecream. Lately, I’ve been using Ancient Cosmeticz Rose Hip + Lavender Dark Circles & Blemishes Face Cream. I can truly say I’ve noticed a difference and my skin is brighter under eye.

Turn the fan on or set the AC up higher

Did you know sleeping in a cold room boosts the production of melatonin, which is not only a sleep hormone but also a powerful antioxidant!

I can only sleep if I’m cold and I usually have my fan running all night because it keeps me cool and adds white noise to the room. If I’m traveling, I’ll even pack my portable fan. Yes, it’s that serious!

Apply lavender drops to my diffuser

I’m a STAN for lavender. I started incorporating lavender into my nighttime routine last year and now I can’t be without it!

Here are some benefits of Lavender:
-works as an anxiolytic (an anxiety reliever) and as a sedative, to increase relaxation and calm, and help bring about sleep
– interacts with the neurotransmitter GABA to help quiet the brain and nervous system activity, reducing agitation, anger, aggression, and restlessness
-functions as a pain reliever, or analgesic
-has anti-bacterial capabilities
-can reduce inflammation

Moisturize my hands and feet

Continuing the OMG-I-LOVE-LAVENDAR train, I also like to apply a moisturizer. My hands and feet tend to get dry through the day so I like to apply a body butter right before going to sleep.

Applying a lotion before bed creates softer, more hydrated, and better-looking skin the next day. It also helps seal in moisture and repairs the skin barrier that’s compromised by dry air.

I really enjoy the Lavender + Rosehip Body Butter by Ancient Cosmetics. The smell is not overbearing and it glides on like butter. With ingredients such as Shea Butter, Cocoa Butter, Coconut Oil, Rose Hip Oil and Lavender Essential Oil, you don’t have to worry about harmful chemicals either.

Apply Pillow spray

Let me start off by saying that you should be sleeping on silk or satin pillowcases, NOT cotton.
Cotton pillowcases are absorbent and will pick up dirt and oil from your skin so when you sleep on the same pillowcase night after night, you’re on your way to clogged pores and breakouts. Additionally, cotton pillowcases make your hair dryer since they absorb moisture.

Protect your hair and skin by using silk or satin pillow cases.
I like to combine my silk pillow cases with a natural pillow spray for an even extra boost of Lavender (I told yall, I’m a STAN lol)

Read [and put my phone away]

I put my phone in the other room at night to help prevent be from scrolling all night on social media as well as easily pressing snooze in the morning when I need to wake up. I place my phone in another room at night and it has truly helped me to wake up earlier as well as reduce mindless social media.

At night I read on my tablet which does not have any social media apps on it. I tend to read for about 30-45 minutes before I get tired.

Rock a sleeping mask

Sleep masks block out light which helps minimize distractions, improve sleep and ultimately your health.

Plus they’re a lot cheaper than black out curtains!

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Do you have a peaceful nighttime routine? If so, share below!



8 things I do before 8AM for a more productive morning

It’s been said that your morning sets your day.

…. and I believe it lol. Lately, I’ve been super intentional with my mornings and how I choose to spend them. I want to work out more, eat better, be more productive and be on my phone less. It’s a lot but for the past 3 weeks, I’ve successfully done it!

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Here are some of my tips when it comes to making your morning more productive

1. Place your phone away from the bed
Place your phone away from your bed. Having to physically get out of bed and turn your phone off makes it less easier to hit snooze and roll over in bed. Having to actually get up means you’re more likely to stay up

2. Set your workout clothes out the night before
Already have your workout clothes ready to go. You can even sleep in your workout clothes at night

3. Workout in the morning
…before your mind knows what you’re doing

4. If you have a dog, use the time to walk him to also meditate and get a clear head for the day
I walk leo 15-20 minutes every morning. I use that time to think about the day and practice mindful meditation while I walk

5. Use MCT to improve brain function and weightloss
There are sooo many benefits when it comes to MCT oil! Google it!

6. Journal
I spend 5 minutes reading my daily devotional and thanking God for a new day. I also spend 5 minutes journaling. I journal how I’m feeling, my goals, things I’m grateful for, goals, worries…. everything!

7. Put your phone away while you work
Your phone is a distraction. Keep it away while you work. You can turn your phone off or simple place in another room on silent

8. Put the top 3 things you want to achieve for the day on your whiteboard
I got this idea from erinondemand on YouTube… but I write down my top 3 goals for the day and aim to achieve all 3

9. Use peppermint essential oils to help with concentration
I love essential oils and use them at night to help me go to sleep. I also use them during the day to help me focus. Peppermint is know to improve focus and concentration

10. Take advantage of prepackaged healthy meals!

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What’s something you do during your morning routine? Share below!


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How to set goals (and actually accomplish them!)

Each year, I’ve hit some of my biggest goals including relocating to a new state, buying a home, saving up a hefty savings account and more.

I’m a firm believer that goals without plans are just dreams. It’s simply not enough to create a vision board and scream your goals from the mountain-tops. Sorry sis, you need more!.

Here are my 3 tips when it comes to making goals that you actually accomplish.

No fluffy cotton tips included.


We’ve all heard of S.M.A.R.T goals (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, Timely) which is a formula to setting goals.

Yeah, yeah… you want to lose weight but specifically HOW MUCH WEIGHT? BY WHEN? BY DOING WHAT?
Your goals should be measurable so you know exactly where and how you need to hit it. So instead of saying you want to lose weight, make it a goal that you want to lose 20lbs in 6 months *No Binge eating for yewwwww*

Last year, I made a goal to not just save up money but I put a number behind it. I told myself I wanted to save up $10,000 in 12 months by spending less.
Specific? Very.
Measurable? You betcha.
Attainable? Absolutely.
Realistic? Yup!
Timely? Mmmhmm.




One of my favorite books is Atomic habits By James Clear. I originally purchased the audio version and loved it so much that I purchased the actual book too!

In the book James talks about how to build habits that get you to your goal and more.

“You do not ride to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems”
-James Clear, Atomic Habits

You have to build systems that allow you to change your habits. For example, you can say you want to lose 20lbs… but you have to create a system and build healthy habits so you can actually lose the 20lbs. You know losing 20lbs requires you to smoke crack eat healthy and workout. So you need to build a system so you actually workout. You need to develop healthy habits so you aren’t binging on ice cream, pizza and cake every night.

For example, creating a system so every morning at 6am you go to the gym and workout for 45 minutes. Creating a system so every Sunday you meal prep healthy food for the week. Create a system that allows you to create good habits that will propel you to accomplish your goal.

Plus when you create systems and develop happy habits, you don’t fall off once the goal is achieved. If your goal is to lose 10lbs then once you hit that goal, you’ll continue to maintain your weight (instead of gaining it back plus more) because you’ve developed healthy habits.

For me, my goal was to spend less and save $10,000. I created habits like saving a specific amount each month and budgeting to get that goal. Once I hit that goal, I didn’t stop. It’s a habit now so I find myself still spending less and saving even more. I didn’t fall off once the goal was achieved.


In 2013, I lost 40lbs. While my goal was to lose the weight, I didn’t just want to lose it, I wanted to become healthy.

It’s not enough to say you no longer want to smoke. You have to tell yourself that you’re not a smoker. You have to change your identity.

In atomic habits, James Clear says every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to be. A single instance doesn’t define you. Just because you ate salad one day, doesn’t mean you’re now a healthy eater. Just because you worked out for one day at one time doesn’t make you an atheltic person. An atheletic person works out often. A healthy eater eats nutrious food often. If you want to actually accomplish your goals, you have to ask yourself “what would a *fill in the blank” person do?” … and do that.

What would an athletic person do?
What would a runner do?
What would an avid book reader do?

Don’t just commit to the results, commit to the identity and become that person.


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Nine things I’m saying Goodbye to in 2019

2019 has been an interesting year for me.

I hosted my very first event (it sold out in 2 weeks!), I spoke at over 15 conferences, I won favorite Business blogger by FLBLOGCON, I was selected as one of Tampa FL top women of influence, I hit 75,000 subscribers on YouTube, I made more money than ever before in my business and I was able to meet & serve so many women with my gifts… On the flip side, I also had some low moments such as outgrowing friendships, losing my sister unexpectedly and saying goodbye my furry-pet, Bailey, who I had for over 10 years. As 2019 and ultimately the 2010’s end, I think about all the things I’ve accomplished, all the things I want to say hello to… and all the things I want to say goodbye to….

Here’s nine things I’m saying Farewell to in 2019:

1. Overthinking with inaction. Clarity comes from doing things, not thoughts. I’ve learned that often times the best way to figure something out is simply by just doing it… and going from there.⁣

2. Saying “hell yeah, just let me know!” … Knowing good and damn well I ain’t going.⁣

3. Self-doubt. Of course, self-doubt will always linger regardless of how old I am, but I’ve come to accept that it’s no longer going to be something I put at the forefront of my every day.⁣

4. My addiction to my phone. I’m spending more time with nature, my garden, my loved ones, God and myself…

5. Ignoring my intuition… that includes uncomfortable friendships and depleting interactions. It’s okay for me to respectfully decline, let go and move on from things I feel do not serve me.

6. Always thinking “mmmMmm, now I want something sweet” after finishing a meal… ?? ⁣I don’t always need dessert!

7. The need to buy so much stuff. Now sis is no subscriber to minimalism but I do want to escape excessive consumerism.⁣

8. Waiting 3 weeks to fold my laundry and then feeling overwhelmed because I got all these clothes piled up on top of the dryer.⁣

9. Expectations for what the upcoming year will bring. If I’ve learned anything it’s that life is unpredictable. While we should absolutely plan and pursue our wildest dreams and goals… we also have to remember that real life does not follow a script or sequence. ⁣
Almost nothing I thought would be true at age 20 is true today and the best parts of my life today weren’t planned.⁣

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